Transcon, since you're running multiple websites on that
server, one thing you can do is use ColdFusion Enterprise
Multi-Instance, and assign each website its own instance of CF.
Each website would then have its own process, and you could use up
to 1.3 GB of RAM for each one. Of course, given 20 websites, you
probably won't want to allocate 26GB to the CF instances.
Alternatively, you could create 5 or 6 instances of CF, and divide
the websites up between them.
It's a fair amount of work, but it would allow you to fully
utilize your server's hardware, and as a bonus the websites would
be a little more isolated from each other - i.e. if one of them
crashed CF, not every site on the server would go down, only the
ones in that instance.
Interesting, and disappointing, news about CF8-64-win. I hope
that can be rectified soon. If not, I may have to start playing
with Solaris! Well, I've been meaning to play with ZFS
anyway...