I'm sorry, but you cannot use DDR4 RAM in a DDR3 system. The two types of RAM are completely incompatible with one another. And the DDR4 modules will not fit any DDR3 memory slots at all (they are both physically and electrically incompatible with one another). What's more, your system is already maxed out on the supported amount and speed of RAM. Using incompatible RAM will result in a completely unusable system.
As for a SATA SSD, keep in mind that such an SSD in your old system will be severely limited by the system's SATA II interface: You'll never get more than about 270 MB/second out of a given SSD even if it's capable of over 500 MB/second in a newer system. That isn't sufficiently faster than a current-generation 7200 RPM hard drive to justify spending the money on.