Contact form only sends w/ my email

you're welcome.

It works......You're an angel.........Thanks so much.......

That is a bit bazzarre, although it sounds like it is thinking that you are getting spammed as it does not recognise the email address it is coming from... perhaps try changing the php so it always thinks it is coming from your email....

mail("$to","$subject","$matter","From: nana@planetnana.com");

The persons actual email will still be within the email message itself. I think it is your email just thinking it is spam and filtering it.

when i test it and I use any email address in the form it doesn't work (I never receive it in my inbox) but if i fill out the same form using my email address I receive it.
if you fill it out I won't receive it.
test it: www.planetnana.com/c/byemail.swf

What are you saying, who's email are you trying to send to other than your own? It is only gonna send to your email becuase the email variable $to is your email address.