cfmail - out of office replies

Just wondering is there anyway of sending 'out of office replies' back to a specific email address using cfmail.

In the example below, they are always be sent back to me@mydomain.com but would prefer it if they came back to him@mydomain.com

<cfmail from="me@mydomain.com"

              username= "MyUsername"
              password= "MyPassword"

              to= "test@mydomain.com"

              subject= "Test"

              replyto="him@mydomain.com"            

             failto="her@mydomain.com">