Problem with adding a server in Coldfusion Builder 3

My Coldfusion 11 server is running in a virtual machine.

When I add a server I enter following data:

Server Name: CF KOV

Application Server: CF+Tomcat

Host name: 192.168.0.100

Webserver port: 8500

Select 'Is Remote'

This will add a server which status is 'Stopped'.

When I read the manual of Coldfusion Builder 3 I see that I have to start a Admin Server Instance with adminstart.bat
This adminstart.bat isn't installed.

Where can I find this bat file?

Should I stop the service 'ColdFusion 11 Application Server' and all other Coldfusion services?

While installing COldfusion 11 I used the option 'Server configuration' and not the 'JEE configuration'