"Sync" local and remote instance admin consoles

I am trying to find a way to "sync" the local and remote admin settings. In other words, when I create or update a datasource, I would like the remote instance in a cluster to update as well.

I currently have the cluster loadbalanced and able to share sessions. The remote host is registered and in the cluster.

One thing I haven't been able to do as well, is stop and start the server. I keep getting an error in the console and am not sure what I am doing wrong.

If anyone has an example, or can help me troubleshoo that would be great.

What I have done is followed the instructions here:

http://help.adobe.com/en_US/ColdFusion/10.0/Installing/WSc3ff6d0ea77859461172e0811cdec18c28-8000.html#WS932f2e4c7c04df8f288f04831353cc0bade-7ff7

But it is confusing because jetty is not the same in my configuration. I am running CF10 on the built-in tomcat server.