The Apache Tomcat Connectors for CF 2016

Installed CF 2016  on Unbuntu running Apache and I cannot get CF and Apache to see one another. I've searched everywhere to find how to install these "Tomcat Connectors" but all the locations the "config files are supposed to "exist" there not in my files.

I found this at apache.org

You should first have mod_jk.so (unix) or mod_jk.dll (Windows) installed in your Apache module directory (see your Apache documentation to locate it).

Usual locations for modules directory on Unix:

• /usr/lib/apache/
• /usr/lib/apache2/
• /usr/local/apache/libexec/
• /usr/local/apache/modules/

but nothing ...
All the documentation doesnt seem to speak to CF 2016. I found where my connectors are I just dont know the correct location is to install them...

If anyone else has had this issue with this your advice and guidance would be much appreciated ...

In addition.... where is my httpd file? Do I still need one ? I cant find it anywhere...