unable to start local server

by some miracle i got a coldfusion development enviroment installed at my workplace. i coldfusion9 installed for local development at home and i have coldfusion builder trial installed.

i can add the local server in jrun and i can add it in codlfusion builder but it cannot be started or stopped...

maybe im just a nub and am doing something incorrectly. i checked several guides as to how to add a local server in cfbuilder.

ive checked on my cf9 instalation adn thats done correctly.

ive enabled iis7  including ftp server web management tools app dev features http features and health/diagnostics.

ok with that out of the way:

i cannot start the local server

it says make sute the oport isnt in use or that the server isnt already running. yet the status say stopped.

each time i try to debug an app IE says cannot display and firefox says connection interupted.