Web Server not Connected

I just installed Coldfusion after reading quite a bit on how to install it properly and yet I still did not get it installed properly. I am running OS X 10.4. I am also running Apache. Somehow, Coldfusion is not connected to my server. I am not trying to use my Apache server because it is not configured properly. I am trying to use the server that came with Colfusion located in the wwwroot directory. When I launch coldfusion I get a window that has three buttons; start and stop coldfusion and Webserver Connector Utility. It I launches the Webserver connect utility. Here in lies the problem. My only choice of servers is my Apache server and when I tell it what directory sites can be found in it tells me that it is not a valid directory for Apache. I have double checked my syntax.

At this point my head is spinning from trying to figure out what the problem is. I have done some forum searches but apparently I'm not searching for the right information. Please help!

Thanks in advance.