Everything That Have Read Does Not Work With Installing Flash 11

I have read all threads that relates too getting Flash Player to work.

I have gone through all the steps in getting IE9 64 bit to download

Flash 11.

I have checked with Java Script to see if its enabled and it is

I have checked with ActiveX Filtering and even rebooted  have no check mark

I have unistalled any Flash Player

I reinstalled Flash Player when I go to Adobe Flash Player Page

I have even rebooted the Laptop and followed all the steps above.

I know that Flash is installed as I get this message You have version 11,4,402,278 installed

I go to see if there is an update of the Flash Player and soon as I attempt to download

nothing happens even though get message Thank you. Your download will start automatically.

sits on that page with nothing that pops up.

When I go to check and see if there is any Flash installed I see a grayish box with

nothing in it no error message just all one colour, which tells me have no flash

installed

I am running Windows 7 Home Premium SP1

on a Acer Aspire V3-571G 64 bit

This laptop is only a few days old

Is there any other steps that I can do? with out Flash

there is not a lot can do online when comes to video

applications.