Flash Player 13.0.0.182 CRASHES ALWAYS (Firefox 28 & Safari, OS X 10.6.8) NO offered solution worked

The Flash Player 13.0.0.182 CRASHES ALWAYS (Firefox 28 & Safari, OS X 10.6.8) NO offered solution worked,

Promised: I tried out everything I found about this issue in the forums or web, nothing worked.

This is the first time  that after an upadate flash does not work anymore, what a shame.... watching youtube is

possible only by less quality html5 implemented videos , no HD options anymore...   Vimeo is also not working anymore.

So is the testsite on adobe flash: plugin failure is shown even if it is installed correctly.

PLEASE don't tell me to try out anything what is posted here or on Adobe itself or anywhere else , I tried everything out.

I need a working and EASY solution.

THANKSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!