how can you make adobe flash player work with iPad/iPhone?

Apple released the First iPhone in 2006. That was when they released iOS 1, the first of now seven versions of iOS which, per Apple design, at the behest of Steve Jobs, was SPECIFICALLY INCOMPATIBLE with Flash Player. That will never change. The reasoning given was the playing Flash content is extremely processor consumptive and kills batteries, as well as shortening battery life in mobile devices.
Apple offers SkyFire browser for iOS, which will play Flash content, but there will never be an iOS device that will run Adboe Flash Player.