In my setting the button for flash player is on (for Microsoft Edge) but when I do a check it tells me it is disabled? Anyone know how to fix this?

I don't understand what you're trying to say: "keep getting is that I do not need to install because its already exits as a standard with M.E and also says its disabled?First, confirm that ActiveX Filtering is configured to allow Flash content:"

That said, the following guidance applies:

Internet Explorer 11 and Edge introduce a number of changes both to how the browser identifies itself to remote web servers, and to how it processes JavaScript intended to target behaviors specific to Internet Explorer. Unfortunately, this means that content on some sites will be broken until the content provider changes their site to conform to the new development approach required by modern versions of IE.

You can try to work around these issues by using Compatibility View:

http://windows.microsoft.com/en-us/internet-explorer/use-compatibility-view#ie=ie-11

If that is too inconvenient, using Google Chrome may be a preferable alternative.