Need some help windows 7 64bit pro with adobe flash 10

Ok heres the problem.  Flash works on all websites after install but after a short time it starts to ask to install flash on multiple websites. If I  cancel it the flash loads fine and works perfectly. If I try to download it. It starts and then about  1/8th into it is errors and cancels saying it cannot install. I have used the uninstall app from here restarted computer, disabled  everything that could  interfere with download. Yet nothng seems to fix the please download and update flash. I have even used the update exe in the flash folder which downloads and update and installs it but still get the message.Its darn annoying having to cancel no do not download all the time. I have Bitdefender  internet security 2010 for antivirus and it has built in firewall and defender. I have checked to make sure firewall is letting everything through and it is all adobe flash references have a ruleset.

If any of you guys have run into this issue and found a fix could yah please let me know by posting here. I am about to pull last remaining hair out of y scalp lol. Thanks in advance.Oh this is also using IE.

Incase needed system specs

I7 950

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Windows 7 64bit pro