this website is to complicated

Now I know I am going to get flamed from that subject line.   A little about my background, I build my own website.  I build my own computers.  Ok technically on the current one I cheated and bought it.  Now onto the problem.  I literally can't figure out what to click on to update flash.  When I can't figure it out.  It is to damn complicated.  I go to flash.com  that shows that i am running an old version of flash. Then I click on "flash player" which takes me to http://www.adobe.com/products/flashplayer/ I have tried clicking on "download flash player" in the upper right corner that cycles me to the exact same page i am on.  I then try clicking on "Download Flash Player 10.3 now" which again cycles me to the same page. Then I try to click on "Get new Flash Player 10.3" in the upper left corner. and again that cycles me to the same page.  I finally gave up and went to google.  and google gave me the link.  Yeah I figured out how to do it.  But how many people are out there saying screw it I give up.  I know how to get around on the web.  Not everyone does.  Make your website easier to navigate.