You will need to keep a manifest.xml file inside 'livepkgr/events/_definist_/liveevent/' directory besides the Event.xml file. Note that the dvr info tag has to be added to this file in order to have dvr info tag in the output manifest file -
liveevent.f4m.
So your manifest.xml should look something like -
<manifest xmlns="http://ns.adobe.com/f4m/1.0">
<dvrInfo beginOffset="0" endOffset="0"/>
<media streamId="liveevent1" bitrate="282" />
<media streamId="liveevent2" bitrate="482" />
<media streamId="liveevent3" bitrate="832" />
</manifest>
as you pointed out yourself.
Again, I think you are a little confused as there is no liveevent.f4m file physically on the disk, it is generated on the fly by the live packager. So you don't have to keep any f4m file in the Events directory, FMS will create it for you automatically whenever you request it.