Can't see movie controls

I uploaded my .flv's and .swf's to my server and when I embed them I can't see the movie controls.
Do I need to change something in here to reference the SteelExternalNoVol.swf? Here's the code for the embeded object:

<object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" codebase=" http://fpdownload.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=8,0,0,0" width="636" height="400" id="" align="middle"><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="sameDomain" /><param name="movie" value="images/music_videos/full_view/mv_noir_evanescence_bringlife.swf" /><param name="quality" value="high" /><param name="bgcolor" value="#00414d" /><embed src="images/music_videos/full_view/mv_noir_evanescence_bringlife.swf" quality="high" bgcolor="#00414d" width="636" height="400" name="" align="middle" allowScriptAccess="sameDomain" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage=" http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" /></object>

Or is there something else I need to change?

Thanks for any help.

Justin

PS I made these files by importing video into flash. I just followed the wizard.