FMS3 localhost connection only working

I have seen many topics with somewhat the same title and issue but have yet to find a fix. I will give as much information and if anyone can help it would be appreciated. I have installed Flash Media Server 3 on a Windows 2003 Server as Developers Edition. I have set up a simple project that has the following code:

Head<script type="text/javascript" language="javascript" src=" http://<server_ip>/flash/swfobject.js"></script>
Body<div id="videocontent">This content requires Flash and Javascript turned on. <a href=" http://www.adobe.com/products/flashplayer/" target="_blank">Download</a> the latest Flash player</div>

<script type="text/javascript">
var so = new SWFObject(" http://<server_ip>/flash/mediaplayer.swf", "player", "555", "335", "8");

so.addVariable( "file", "rtmp://<server_ip>/Vod/" );
so.addVariable( "id", "02_Alt_DB_Bi_Curls" );
so.addVariable( "backcolor", "0x262626" );
so.addVariable( "frontcolor", "0xffffff");
so.addVariable( "image", " http://10.1.1.1/images/stories/images/personal_trainer.jpg" );
so.addParam( "allowfullscreen", "false" );
so.addParam( "scale", "noscale" );

so.addVariable( "autoplay", "false" );

so.write("videocontent");

</script>

The player can be found here ( http://www.jeroenwijering.com/?item=JW_FLV_Player). Anyways, when I connect via Firefox or IE on the localhost the video plays and the server registers a connection. When you connect from any other host thats not the localhost it will show will show the progress circle and nothing happens. In the server it shows the server connects but then instantly gets disconnects, and in the server log it just simply shows that the host connected, no messages of disconnects. If you need anymore information let me know, I will try to provide.

Thanks