Video problems with my flash player

I am using windows 7, 64bit, IE10.  I have been having difficulty getting visual display when I click on links to video clips on foxnews.com, other news sites, some youtube videos, and various other web sites.  Audio yes, visual none.  I have been told that I need Flash player for these and have recently downloaded the newest edition of Flash player.  I have checked to make sure that Flash is enabled and that Active X filters are not enabled.

I am not particularly a computer savvy person and I am sure I must be missing something simple.  In fact I am not even sure that I am sending this message to the correct community, but I would appreciate any suggestions.