How to control the cursor style?

How to precisely control the cursor style?

Most of the time, the cursor should be like an arrow.

At least three cursor styles:

1. Looks like this, I don't know how to call it.

2. Most of the time, it looks like an arrow.

3. When hovered over a hyperlink or button, it looks like a hand.

When recording software simulations, if you move the cursor from the field (as shown in the screenshot), it will look like an arrow, and when to the button "Search forums only" or link "Meet the Experts", it will look like a hand.

But after recording, when I watch the recorded simulation, the cursor already becomes a hand before I move the cursor above the Meet the Experts link. Is there a way to change it?