How do I show "extras" in Framemaker?

In an answer to a previous question, I saw a screen shot of a graphic with a blue box which could be dragged to a line of text to anchor the frame to the text... but when I have text symbols turned on and every other option I can find turned on, I only see the black box and black corner squares for the graphic frame. How do I get those blue boxes and all the goodies? I'm using FM 16.