Issue every time i enter illustrator - selection tool becomes direct selection, type becomes line

Every single time i enter illustrato, even after making this change every time it opens, it defaults to a wacky toolbar setting i dont understand.  talking about my main toolbar on the left.

though i never change it to this setting, it seems that every time i close and re-enter the program:

my selection tool defaults to "direct selection tool" 

and my type tool defaults to "line segment tool"

I almost never use direct selection tool or line segment tool, but use selection tool and type tool every time i open the application, which is constantly.  for over a year i've put off this ask, because it's a lot of labor to expend for what only takes me 30 secodns each time, but now im adding up my 30 seconds and realizing its a lot.  help!

thanks!

steve

using most recent updated version of CC of course.