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OK, I see one of the problems and you noticed it yourself, you just may not have understood what is happening. When using the eyedroppers in the curves panel it doesn't matter if you use the black or white eyedropper first. You can set the white point then the black point or reverse that order and you still get the same curve. What does matter is when you use the grey eyedropper. That has to be used after both the white and black point has been set. If you set grey in the middle it gets discarded when you set the last point and you get the same curve if you just skipped the grey point altogether. In other words if you don't set the grey point last you in effect didn't set it at all.
Notice in your video that when you click on the sampler on the neck that the image is very cyan. It's only when you click on the last sampler that the color returns to something more normal. You can see the same thing looking at just the curves. Clicking on the neck creates curves with long arcs. Clicking on the last sampler turns it into lines between the white and black point( because the grey point is discarded )
Which brings us back to where the sampler are placed make a big difference. Skin tone is not where you would want to set the grey point. I think you are using the luminance mask to tone down the adjustment because the black and white points are also poorly placed. The color at the black point is in the 20s. I think a better place would be under the jaw to the right of the neck. In fact that area is already 0,0,0 so I wouldn't set a black point. The white sampler is in the 230s. Setting that to white clips a lot of the wall in the upper left.