Hi Glenda, Adobe's scanner troubleshooting page suggests two things for this kind of driver behaviour (https://helpx.adobe.com/acrobat/desktop/troubleshoot/print-scan-issues/cannot-connect-scanner.html), and they're worth trying in this order:
1. Switch the driver type in Acrobat's scanner list. On Windows, Adobe recommends toggling between the TWAIN and WIA drivers. If your scanner has a TWAIN entry, select that one instead of WIA: scanning is then driven by Acrobat's own options (paper source = feeder, front/both sides), and those settings can be saved in a scan preset. Settings chosen inside the scanner's own pop-up window aren't stored by Acrobat, which is why they keep getting lost on the WIA path.
2. Update the scanner driver from the manufacturer's website, then restart the computer and relaunch Acrobat (also from Adobe's guide).
I can't promise it will cure the feeder issue, but the TWAIN path is the supported way to scan without the scanner's interface popping up each time. Let us know how it goes.