Hi @Rba Mrym:
I looked at your file and it is indeed complex. As a heads up, you will be able to number the sidenotes with autonumbers too, including the red color and the close parentheses. To make sure you don't lose your mind, please read up on styles: paragraph and character styles. You will need both. InDesign can handle multiple numbered lists (I know of three you need so far) as long as you name each list.
For example:

My video clips are fast because we are limited by file size, which ends up translating to about 30 seconds. Anything longer won't load. On the bright side, you can watch them as many times as you like until you figure it out!
Don't worry too much about the Office integration. The video started in Word, where I made a list of:
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You will need one for each number, so copy/paste is your friend. Then I saved the Word doc, used File > Place to import it into InDesign, and hovered over the frame visible to the left of the blue number. (I drew that frame and the one to the right of the blue number on the right parent page.) Shift+click will autoflow the list, filling one frame and then moving on the next. Finally, I selected the entire list, assigned a paragraph style with a type size that was large enough to fill the frame and the numbers populated the rest of the document. Remember, each autonumbered list needs a unique name (enter it to the right of the word List in my screen shot above).
Best of luck!
~Barb