HERE is the answer that worked, from 2012: thank you all for replying, and especially to Max
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under: users/ there is no library folder therefore I cannot do what you suggest. Under my system folder I can go as far as Adobe Photoshop CS6 - after that there is no AutoRecover. I am at a loss.
In Finder, press Shift+Cmd+G for "Go to Folder" dialogue.
Copy the following path from this message and paste it into the field in the dialogue.
~/Library/Application Support/Adobe/Adobe Photoshop CS6/AutoRecover
Hit the OK button. That will open the hidden AutoRecover folder in a Finder window.