Files Metadata into Photos

A lot of videos and photos that I took with an app don't have the right taken date. It's only yesterday I realised that the date of creation I put on videos in Lightroom can't be written.

So I used Bridge to rewrite the right date on those videos but the Finder on mac still has the same wrong date of creation. The metadata applied in Bridge can be seen in Lightroom but not in the Finder.

And I can't import them in Onedrive or Photos on mac because they read the date of the file in Finder that doesn't change. There are some families moments that I would love to get a notification from Onedrive or Photos during the correct day.

Do you know how to force the date on Finder with these softwares? Adobe support keeps pushing me to Premiere Pro because of the videos. This is nonsense, even for photos the GPS isn't exported. Thank you