moving palettes!

When using Indesign, my palettes get jammed into the sides of the screen, are moved partially off screen, are moved to a completely different screen or any combination of these after my monitor wakes from sleep. The title bar is always the part off screen such that it can't be grabbed to move the palette back on to the page. This program is too expensive for BS like this! Macbook Pro: M1 Pro/Ventura 13.0