Update Modified Links Prompt Issue

Hi, I've been making updates to a linked template in Adobe Indesign version 19.2 x 64 (now I've updated to 19.3, but I still have the same issue). Not even AI can seem to help with this. I saved my unmerged linked template file on accident after I embedded my links and when I reopen it no longer prompts me to update modified links. I check the link though after reopenning and it doesn't give me the unembed option, instead it acts like I haven't embedded them. Also when I reopen, instead of prompting me, it just tells me that my links are missing. So I go back through to relink each one of them (and there are several), and then I save and close to test if I get the prompt to reopen and update modified links. However instead, I still get the message earlier that says that I have missing links and I have relink all over again. I have an older file where if I open it, it still prompts me, but if I save afterwards after making a single update not related to the links, it also all the sudden no longer reopens to prompt me to update the modified links. I want to just be able to get the prompt like it was working before, I just need to update some text and save the template. Is there any fix to this?
My links are on a SharePoint site by the way and like I said, it worked on an older template, it's just not working after I save to prompt when I reopen nor in the other file I accidentally embedded.