Upload and loading problems using publish online for Indesign

Handful of issues listed below. I've loved working in indesign but this is really starting to get on my nerves and causing delays at work. If any one has a solutions or insight into taking my indesign file and uploading to the internet in a different way without adobe, that would be wonderful!

1) The main issue I'm having is that music that is automatically supposed to play on certain pages will pop on randomly and cut off on the wrong pages when first loading the document. This is usually fixed by continuing to upload the document over and over until a version works.

2) Really slow load times for videos even with reducing the file sizes drastically. 

3) Really slow upload speed when publishing online. This is coupled by constant failed uplaod attempts with Error codes 14 and 16. I've called adobe and had them look at my file and they've stated everything looks good and can't give a reason for these uplaod failures. I've used multiple computers on different networks with varying degree of success but nothing consistant.