Lightroom Exports coming out washed out

(LEFT-washed out, RIGHT- how it looks in lightroom)
Okay, I've been looking for answers everywhere and my last post got me nowhere. For some reason for the past month, this has been happening to all my Lightroom exports. It has never been a problem before, in the past my photos have come out looking exactly as they do in the editor.
Some notes:
1) yes my monitor is color calibrated but that has nothing to do with it
2) I'm exporting in sRGB and have played with all the quality settings
3) The files I'm editing are .ARW and I'm exporting them as JPEG
4) I've only had this problem for a month
5) I'm aware of what color managed photo viewers are, but in the past that did not matter, it looked the same on everything regardless of it being color managed
6) looking back at my old photos I edited in lightroom, they are very very dark in lightroom and are the way they are supposed to be in the photo viewer.
(LEFT- how i initially edited it/how it shows when i open the file elsewhere/how it originally looked in lightroom, RIGHT- what it looks like in lightroom now)

Please help, this has been super frustrating and it has completely prevented me from putting out my work ![]()
