I want to clean up my automated batch actions but can't find their save files

They are in the Actions panel, but not in either location of your two screenshots?

Did you ever save the actions from within the Actions panel?

Click on the name of the Action Set and go to the Actions panel flyout menu and do Save Actions

or click on an individual action in the set to save just that action and do Save Action

Then take notice of the location the action or actions are being saved.

It should default to the Actions folder in

C:\Users\UserName\AppData\Roaming\Adobe\Adobe Photoshop 2025\Presets\Actions

which is where you to save or copy the actions to in order to see them listed in the Actions panel

flyout menu.

However, if you've saved actions to different location at one time or another, then it won't default to the above and you'll have to navigate to the above location.