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PSE 2023 Update?
Hi,
the menu item "Update..." is grayed out. Does this mean that no update is available?
Thx
Updates aren't pushed out to everyone at the same time. You may have a buddy that lives a thousand miles away who says "I got the update", but you haven't. Updates also don't give you new features- they fix things, typically "behind the scenes" type stuff- but you never get new features.
Choose this in your preference file (EDIT>PREFERENCES) and forget about updates- the program will take care of it. 
here is the link for the list of updates:
https://helpx.adobe.com/photoshop-elements/release-note/update.html
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