How do I change the default setting for audio video linking

Recently when I start  projects, the audio is not linked to the video. This is true even though the drop down menu says the video is linked and the icon on the time line says it is linked.   I found only one work around that works with my software (right clicking on the sequence and choose link.)

This is a major annoyance and a work stoppage issue.  How can I get Premiere Pro to accurately represent the state of the audio/video relationship in each way there is (menu, icon and right clicking track)?

I want my audio and video linked by default, have functioning ways to link and un-link audio/video and that it be kept that way I want until I change it.

Thanks