Maxing out RAM - Workflow tipps?

Hi,
I have a new-ish 32 gb RAM system. I realize, I'm not up there with the pros and their server farms, but still, I'm surprised at how I max out my Ram (and get errors) when I put my CH scenes into AE. I can live with slugglishness (makes me feel young again, when I used CS3), but maxing out RAM (which in theory should not happen, because my Adobe CC should not chew up more than 80% as per "agreement")?
What I throw at my system:
I'm "guilty" of two scenes, 27 minute long, 4k res, 3 puppets in total that have a number of full body layer cycles. All this is imported as dynamic links into AE to receive no fancy effects but only 5 camera angles that switch back and forth to create a dialogue scene. Ok, I guess, that makes it 3D, but still. And I have some simple static 1080 graphics, that should add little to the load. But looking at my Task manager, the problem is not with AE anyway. AE has no reason to complain. It even gets it own SDD to cache. But it seems that CH running in the background is hogging the memory to provide the dynamically linked data.
What can I do, to get the system out of the red zone and realm of pop up warnings (+freezes)?
Workflow suggestions anyone?
note: If that was my the only episode with these characters, I'd just split scenes and make it more digestable. But I have 15 episodes with more than 7,5 hours of dialogue in total to work through and keeping things tidy would be nice. Any tipps welcome.
Cheers,
Johannes
