If you have a Photoshop license, you can install Photoshop 22.2.
In the Creative Cloud app select Apps > All Apps > Photoshop > click the 3 dots … next to the Open button > click Other Versions and select Photoshop (22.2) and Install
Then, open Photoshop 2023 Application folder > Presets > Color Books and you will find the PANTONE color books, so copy it to Illustrator's Color Books folder.
Make a copy in a safe place.