ok Bill I found them and deleted them like you said and then re opened the file in indesign and it still comes up with this message 
If I'd seen the screen shot you've now posted I would have suggested the possibility of file corruption rather than preferences. Definitely try another file and see if that works. I also agree that back saving using an IDML is not a good idea since, as I pointed out earlier, you will lose any features that you might use with CC 2018. As I also said earlier you should always be able to open a file from an earlier version using the latest version. If you can't open any CC 2017 files with CC 2018 then I would still try reinstalling.