Indesign is killing my daily work with M1 Macbook Pro

Dear Team,
i hardly manage to keep up with indesign. hardly 5 minutes of work, a memory message flies on the monitor that my macbook pro m1 is now completely at the end.

when i look at the window here (porcess manager for the immediate termination of all programs), indesign is always the only disastrous consumer of memory.

like many others, i pay a lot of money monthly for adobe software, so how can affinity consume a fraction of the memory? i have already started to move work to affinity out of necessity, because i can no longer hold my client appointments.

now i've also ordered three more m1 devices for graphics. if it continues like this, we'll go bankrupt or change you out.

i really need help and i'm really overloaded with the problem, i just can't manage 5 minutes on a project despite restarts because of indesign.