Auto-mapping styles from Word to InDesign
I'm new to InDesign, so please bear with me. I'm trying to link a Word document to my InDesign layout so that the layout can be updated with a click of the "update link" icon if the original manuscript changes. I can do that bit... but the styles I have set in Word appear in InDesign and I don't want that. Instead I want them to map automatically to the InDesign styles I have set up with the same names.
I can do the mapping manually, but that's a pain given that I'll be creating one of these every couple of days. When I file>place the Word doc and "show import options" it has "import styles automatically" set to "use InDesign style definition" for conflicts. You would think that would do it - I have style conflicts for each of the styles I use (since I purposefully set up the InDesign file with styles of the same name), but instead new styles of the same name appear at the bottom of the style panels and, not surprisingly, the text appears how it looked in Word, not how it should look if the InDesign styles were imposed.
What am I doing wrong?
Thank you in advance for any help you can offer.

