How to convert pantone in photoshop in the way i need (what is my mistake)

As a last resort, you could try the following script on a selected spot channel:

/*
Alternate CMYK Spot Channel Values scriptUI GUI.jsx
v1.0 - 22nd October 2024, Stephen Marsh
https://community.adobe.com/t5/photoshop-ecosystem-discussions/how-to-convert-pantone-in-photoshop-in-the-way-i-need-what-is-my-mistake/td-p/14908470
*/

#target photoshop

// Create the main window
var dlg = new Window("dialog", "Alternate CMYK Spot Channel Values");
dlg.orientation = "column";
dlg.alignChildren = ["fill", "top"];
dlg.preferredSize.width = 300;

// Create main group for CMYK values
var cmykGroup = dlg.add("panel", undefined, "CMYK Values");
cmykGroup.orientation = "column";
cmykGroup.alignChildren = ["left", "top"];
cmykGroup.margins = 20;
cmykGroup.spacing = 12;

// Create grid rows for each CMYK value
// Cyan Row
var cyanRow = cmykGroup.add("group");
cyanRow.orientation = "row";
cyanRow.alignChildren = ["left", "center"];
cyanRow.spacing = 5;
var cyanLabel = cyanRow.add("group");
cyanLabel.preferredSize.width = 60;
cyanLabel.orientation = "row";
cyanLabel.alignChildren = ["left", "center"];
cyanLabel.add("statictext", undefined, "Cyan:");
var cyanInput = cyanRow.add("edittext", undefined, "");
cyanInput.preferredSize.width = 50;

// Magenta Row
var magentaRow = cmykGroup.add("group");
magentaRow.orientation = "row";
magentaRow.alignChildren = ["left", "center"];
magentaRow.spacing = 5;
var magentaLabel = magentaRow.add("group");
magentaLabel.preferredSize.width = 60;
magentaLabel.orientation = "row";
magentaLabel.alignChildren = ["left", "center"];
magentaLabel.add("statictext", undefined, "Magenta:");
var magentaInput = magentaRow.add("edittext", undefined, "");
magentaInput.preferredSize.width = 50;

// Yellow Row
var yellowRow = cmykGroup.add("group");
yellowRow.orientation = "row";
yellowRow.alignChildren = ["left", "center"];
yellowRow.spacing = 5;
var yellowLabel = yellowRow.add("group");
yellowLabel.preferredSize.width = 60;
yellowLabel.orientation = "row";
yellowLabel.alignChildren = ["left", "center"];
yellowLabel.add("statictext", undefined, "Yellow:");
var yellowInput = yellowRow.add("edittext", undefined, "");
yellowInput.preferredSize.width = 50;

// Black Row
var blackRow = cmykGroup.add("group");
blackRow.orientation = "row";
blackRow.alignChildren = ["left", "center"];
blackRow.spacing = 5;
var blackLabel = blackRow.add("group");
blackLabel.preferredSize.width = 60;
blackLabel.orientation = "row";
blackLabel.alignChildren = ["left", "center"];
blackLabel.add("statictext", undefined, "Black:");
var blackInput = blackRow.add("edittext", undefined, "");
blackInput.preferredSize.width = 50;

// Checkbox for merging the spot channel
var mergeCheckbox = dlg.add("checkbox", undefined, "Merge the selected spot channel");

// Create button group
var buttonGroup = dlg.add("group");
buttonGroup.orientation = "row";
buttonGroup.alignChildren = ["right", "center"];
buttonGroup.alignment = ["right", "top"];
var cancelButton = buttonGroup.add("button", undefined, "Cancel");
var okButton = buttonGroup.add("button", undefined, "OK", { name: "ok" });

// Add button click handlers
cancelButton.onClick = function () {
    dlg.close();
};
okButton.onClick = function () {
    try {
        if (!app.documents.length) {
            alert("No active document found.");
            return;
        }
        var activeDoc = app.activeDocument;

        if (!activeDoc.activeChannels.length) {
            alert("No active channel found.");
            return;
        }
        var activeChannel = activeDoc.activeChannels[0];

        if (activeChannel.kind !== ChannelType.SPOTCOLOR) {
            alert("The active channel is NOT a Spot Color channel!");
            return;
        }

        var idset = stringIDToTypeID("set");
        var desc371 = new ActionDescriptor();
        var idnull = stringIDToTypeID("null");
        var ref28 = new ActionReference();
        var idchannel = stringIDToTypeID("channel");
        var idordinal = stringIDToTypeID("ordinal");
        var idtargetEnum = stringIDToTypeID("targetEnum");
        ref28.putEnumerated(idchannel, idordinal, idtargetEnum);
        desc371.putReference(idnull, ref28);
        var idto = stringIDToTypeID("to");
        var desc372 = new ActionDescriptor();
        var idcolor = stringIDToTypeID("color");
        var desc373 = new ActionDescriptor();
        // Use values from input fields
        var idcyan = stringIDToTypeID("cyan");
        desc373.putDouble(idcyan, Number(cyanInput.text));
        var idmagenta = stringIDToTypeID("magenta");
        desc373.putDouble(idmagenta, Number(magentaInput.text));
        var idyellowColor = stringIDToTypeID("yellowColor");
        desc373.putDouble(idyellowColor, Number(yellowInput.text));
        var idblack = stringIDToTypeID("black");
        desc373.putDouble(idblack, Number(blackInput.text));
        var idCMYKColorClass = stringIDToTypeID("CMYKColorClass");
        desc372.putObject(idcolor, idCMYKColorClass, desc373);
        var idspotColorChannel = stringIDToTypeID("spotColorChannel");
        desc371.putObject(idto, idspotColorChannel, desc372);
        executeAction(idset, desc371, DialogModes.NO);

        if (mergeCheckbox.value) {
            executeAction(stringIDToTypeID("mergeSpotChannel"), undefined, DialogModes.NO);
        }

        dlg.close();

    } catch (e) {
        alert("Error updating color: " + e);
    }
};

// Show the window
dlg.show();

https://prepression.blogspot.com/2017/11/downloading-and-installing-adobe-scripts.html 

Based on your picture, the way a color is converted to CMYK is based on the profile U.S. Web Coated (SWOP) v2, the one selected under Working Space, CMYK.

If you aren’t happy with the CMYK values resulting from a conversion, you probably need to select a different CMYK profile. Ideally, you should select a CMYK profile representing the exact printing conditions that your job is targeting (the press, paper, and ink setup that will be used by the printing company to print your job).

For example, different CMYK profiles will apply different total ink limits or different black generation, and those will affect how color values are distributed across the CMYK ink channels.