1 more question, I can solve my problem by using srgbIEC61966-2.1 on my display but can't use my calibration? Do you see a problem with this?
No, you can't solve this problem without color management. Color management is the solution, that's all there is to it.
Don't overthink this. Just make your sRGB files in Photoshop, done. It'll be fine.
Most monitors are fairly close to sRGB natively. So even without color management, it will be roughly right. sRGB is the middle of the gauss curve. If you start worrying about the outliers, it will just look worse everywhere else.
Yes, Microsoft could implement color management more widely in the OS-native applications. But the reality is that most people really don't care.