Hi Mary...
Jumping to your last comment .. "The conref isn't in the table. The entire table is the conref." .. maybe I missed it in earlier posts, but this changes everything. You're conreffing a "table" not a "note". The table may be used as a note or contain a note, but it sounds like you're making a conref to a table element. is this correct?
I believe that FM8 DITA has problems with conreffing tables. I can't validate this right now .. it may just be problems conreffing rows or cells .. I don't remember.
If you can only see the conref by using the Filter By Attribute command, something is *very* wrong.
When you generate the book and the FM document, are you generating those files to the same folder as the original map or DITA file? I ask because I'll bet that the value of the conref attribute .. "../Conref/<and so on>" may not be valid from the location that the new file has been created. FM8 DITA has a problem resolving references in book builds if the files aren't all in the same folder. I believe that it doesn't "fix up" the paths properly so that the references can update properly after the book or document has been created (this was fixed in FM9). I'll bet that if you create the book or document in the same folder as the original XML document that contains the conref reference, the conref will appear.
Do feel free to upload a ZIP of your sample DITA files to my inbox (listed in previous post).
However .. you might want to check out DITA-FMx (my plugin). This fixes the FM8 limitations as well as providing lots of other nice authoring and publishing features.
http://leximation.com/dita-fmx/
The 30-day trial should give you plenty of time to make sure it does what it's supposed to.
Cheers,
...scott
Scott Prentice
Leximation, Inc.
www.leximation.com
Hi Mary...
Got your sample files.
OK, your structure is note/table .. a table within a note element .. you are conreffing a note element. In theory this *should* work and does for me under certain circumstances. I think your problem is your directory structure. FM8 DITA does not do a good job at resolving references in complex (or not so complex) directory structures. If you put all of the files in one folder (map, topics and conref source files) .. it will most likely work (if you build the FM document or book to that folder as well).
I'm running out right now so can't do any more extensive testing. Let me know if this helps at all .. I can check it out more tomorrow if you'd like.
Cheers,
...scott