The best way is to probably use a cloud service. But this usually means an added cost for you. You can use iCloud on your iPhone. There are many other services that fulfill this function.
Elements 2023 also has a Cloud sharing function. It is still in public beta for Android phones and it is my expectation that iPhones will soon be added. (Not sure if your XS will be compatible.) However, it is also my understanding that the public beta program is limited to certain regions. The US will definitely be covered but I'm not sure about elsewhere.
You can download a free trial of Elements 2023 to see if the available workflow is suited to your needs. You get a small (2GB) free cloud account to upload your photos from the Organizer (or elsewhere). And you can upgrade that account to 1TB or more for a monthly fee.